Monday, 7 July 2025

Love Is A Verb

We wake up in a bed that remembers

more arguments than orgasms.

But you’re here.

Still.

Again.

And that’s enough goddamn proof

that love is a verb — not a miracle.


You say “I love you”

like it’s both a promise and a dare.

I say it back

like I mean it,

because I do —

even when I don’t know how to show it

without first crumbling

like a dried starfish on the shore of my own ego.


We fight like orphans of affection.

You throw the past on the table

like evidence.

I counter with inherited silence.

The walls have heard more

than any therapist could survive.


But we stay.

Even when the house stinks

of ego, shame, and garlic gone bitter.

Even when I sound

like my father’s unfinished sentence,

and you flinch

like someone else said it first.


We fuck like touch has a ticking clock.

Like forgiveness might live

somewhere between the hips.

And afterward,

we hold each other

like addicts gripping sobriety

on day three —

not healed,

but breathing.


We laugh —

not because it’s funny,

but because the sink

is too full of our tears already.


You chop vegetables like penance.

I do dishes like confession.

We don’t split chores —

we split trauma.

Fifty-fifty.

Raw.

Unwashed.


Some nights you say,

“Don’t leave.”

And I don’t.

Not because I know how to stay —

but because I want to learn.

And you let me.


Because we’re not healing —

we’re hurting better.

Softer.

With consent.

With context.

With eye contact.


We still say “I love you.”

Loudly.

After sex.

Before sleep.

During war.


We say it with cracked voices

and trembling hands —

with the kind of hope

only fools, dogs, or poets

dare carry into the fire.


Because this is what love looks like

when both of you come from wreckage:

not flowers,

not fairy tales —

but two stubborn assholes

choosing each other

against the grain

and despite the smoke.


So no —

we don’t make sense.


We make love.

Over.

And over.

Until the world shuts up

and lets us.


And in the betweens —

we fuck.

Because survival sometimes

needs ritual too.

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