Saturday, 26 July 2025

Forged In Frost & Feign

I was born in December —

the season of nostalgia

packaged as celebration,

where people wrap regrets in ribbons

and call them resolutions.


They say winter babies feel less cold.

Maybe.

Or maybe, 

they learn early on

that frostbite is foreplay.


While others were cradled in lullabies,

I was breastfed on cold shoulders.

Weaned off expectations

and onto disclaimers.


You see, my birthday

fell on the same shelf

as Christmas sales and final deadlines —

a polite footnote

in a month too tired to care.


And they wonder why

I don’t flinch when people leave,

why my smiles expire quickly,

why silence suits me like second skin.


They say I’m cold-blooded.

But I’m just winter-born.

My warmth was a luxury

the calendar forgot to deliver.


Every December, the world remembers joy

in a language I was never taught.

Thermostats set to survival.

Hands held only

when they needed heat,

not history.


But I’m not alone, am I?


There’s a whole generation

of frost-forged children

wearing sarcasm like scarves,

burning not to stay warm —

but to remind them

what cold really was.


We’re the ones who

celebrate quietly,

love recklessly,

and vanish before

you notice we never belonged.


We don’t decorate trees.

We name them after people

who forgot we existed.


We don’t wish.

We witness.


So no, I don’t feel cold.

Not anymore.


Why feel when you can become?

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